How to Have End-of-Life Conversations
Learn why end-of-life conversations matter. You’ll gain insights on how to proceed, whom to include, and steps for planning your loved one’s remaining time.
Last Updated: January 1, 2022
Written by the Open Caregiving Team. Editorial review by Joyce O. Murphy RN, MSN.
It means that the patient is choosing comfort over further treatment of the cancer they’ve been living with. This typically means that it has been medically determined a cure is not possible or very unlikely.
Hospice offers your loved one and family respect and the ability to have life’s end-stage close with dignity. One of the primary goals of hospice is for people with cancer to have the highest quality of life for as long as possible.
Hospice serves the physical and emotional care needs of people who are dying because of cancer. Your loved one and family receive the care, support, and education that promote comfort and quality of life during the months or weeks of end-stage cancer. Services include:
Your loved one will have services available at home, in the hospital, or in another facility, such as at a hospice house or nursing home. The setting for hospice care is determined by:
Hospice helps cancer patients by making them as comfortable and supported as possible. Hospice also helps to reduce the number of re-hospitalizations, something that can often cause added stress.
Your loved one makes decisions about the hospice care they will receive for as long as they can. These wishes are shared with the hospice team. Your loved one gets to make choices, such as:
Your loved one knows that you and other family members are supported by professionals who are experienced caring for grieving families.
Each family and hospice situation is unique. Your loved one’s hospice team is made up of people who have cared for many other families. They are prepared to:
Hospice professionals are with your family each step of the way, and in any setting where your loved one receives care.
Hospice may be needed for cancer patients when their condition is declining and no longer responding to medical treatment. At this point your loved one’s oncologist will state that all applicable treatments are not containing the cancer.
It is wise to call hospice even before the above becomes inevitable. That way your loved one and family are ready to take next steps if and when you decide it is appropriate.
It’s important to note that many families wish they had made their decision to begin hospice earlier than they did.
Your loved one’s eligibility for hospice care because of cancer includes:
Although medical care focused on comfort will continue until a patient passes, chemotherapy is stopped in hospice. Chemotherapy often has side effects that can be distressing for your loved one, so many patients find it comforting to be free of these negative side effects in their final stages of life.
Hospice care is intended for those who have decided to forego any more efforts to cure the cancer they have.
Yes, Medicare covers hospice care for cancer as long as all eligibility requirements are met.
Yes, Medicaid will pay for hospice care for cancer based on your loved one’s state eligibility requirements.
NOTE: Most private insurance companies also pay for many hospice care expenses. It is best to check in with your loved one’s insurer to learn more.
Learn why end-of-life conversations matter. You’ll gain insights on how to proceed, whom to include, and steps for planning your loved one’s remaining time.
Steps that ensure your loved one gets the best care in their remaining days of life.
Learn about changes you may need to make to your home, what to expect from the hospice team, and how you can be there for your loved one.